..To grab my attention in the sea of a thousand singles. He didn't even know he'd done it, and truthfully he didn't even know I existed (yet).
But it was that laugh. There was no name and no face attached to it. Just carefree happiness with a hint of..something. I didn't know it then, but I would forever wake up to that laugh and fall asleep next to it to.
It all started when I decided to get outside my bubble a bit. I'd been dating someone for a long while and it was just getting to a point where it wasn't working anymore. The reasons we were together in college, just didn't seem to fit any more. So around that same time I decided to get more involved in singles ministry at my church (which is for anyone who is not married, not just "singles") and mad some great girlfriends. There was a movie on the lawn night held for everyone to attend, and I decided after talking myself out of it several times to go on my own and meet up with the girls.
Everyone had blankets and since I only knew 2 people there I quickly found them blopped down to people watch 'til Sweet Home Alabama started. While we waited people kept coming over to our squares of blankets to chat and introduce themselves. AND THEN... I heard it.
The Laugh.
Somewhere over my right shoulder I heard people taking and joking around, and all assudden I heard this male laugh that just.. stuck out. I turned around a bit to see what was going on and heard my friend say something like, "Gah, Jacccooob! That was so not funny!" Then more laughter.
I thought to myself, "Jacob? The one she's beentalking about? There's no way. Seriously? He's not asian! Wait.. why in the world did I think "Jacob" was asian?! He's pretty cute... seriously. Huh.... So that's Jacob."
My friend plopped back down next to me on the blanket and I leaned over and said, "THAT's jacob?! Seriously? Oh my gosh, he's so cute!" We all started laughing, and I can remember glancing oer waaaaaay across the lawn to see where he was sitting. He was around a bunch of girls, no surprise, but couldn't sit still for the world.
After the movie I hung around for a bit hoping maybe he'd come back by our group and I'd have an excuse to be introduced to the mystery laugh that belonged to this Jacob guy. Lo and behold, the excuse arrived and we were introduced....
Too bad he didn't even remember seeing me that night(and still doesn't!), and it would be weeks before we really got to know one another. But when the second opportunity arose he was hooked for the first moment. We just clicked instantly!!!
But I like to say, It all started with that one laugh!